The Institute of Oral Love đź’‹

A syllabus in pleasure, history & safe play

Welcome to class... oral sex has been part of human desire for centuries. Celebrated, stigmatised, whispered about, and finally embraced. Today, we’re diving into where it came from, how far it’s come, and how to enjoy it with confidence, safety, and style.

Lesson 1: A (Very Juicy) History

  • Ancient times: Artwork from Ancient Greece, India, and China shows oral pleasure as part of love and ritual. The Kama Sutra even gave it a name and a few tips of its own.

  • The hush-hush era: For much of Western history, oral sex was taboo, even criminalised in some places. (Shocking, we know... pleasure on trial!)

  • Modern glow-up: Today, oral sex is openly celebrated in media, sex-ed, and yes even in your favourite sex-positive shop.

Lesson 2: The Science of Safe Play

Pleasure is best when it’s safe. A few things to remember:

  • Use barriers (condoms, dental dams) if you’re unsure of your partner’s STI status.

  • Flavoured lubes can make protection fun, not clinical.

  • Good hygiene (mouth + body) = confidence and comfort for both.

 

Lesson 3: Techniques Worth Studying

  • Confidence is key: Relax, enjoy yourself, and don’t overthink.

  • Pace & rhythm: Build waves of pleasure with changes in speed and pressure.

  • All the tools: Lips, tongue, hands, breath, even eye contact. Variety is the spice of graduation.

  • Communication: Ask, listen, adjust. Sexy and essential.

 

Lesson 3.5: Tips in Practice

On Her đź’‹

The clitoris is the headline act, but don’t rush straight to centre stage. Start slow, teasing the thighs, outer lips, and lower belly to build anticipation. Once you’re there, mix it up: gentle flicks, swirling circles, and playful pauses. Remember, it’s not a race; think waves, not fireworks.

Your mouth doesn’t have to do all the work either. Bring in your fingers for a double act. One hand can explore penetration or tease around while your tongue stays focused up top. And don’t forget the full vulva: the labia and surrounding areas are packed with nerves that love attention. A mix of variety, patience, and communication will always earn you an A+.

 

 

On Him 🍒
Oral on him is all about rhythm and creativity. Alternate between lips and tongue: soft suction, playful licks, and gentle swirls all keep things interesting. The frenulum (that sensitive strip just under the head) is your secret weapon. Give it extra attention and watch the results.

Your hands are essential here. Wrap your hand around the base and match the movement of your mouth to create a smooth, continuous sensation. Don’t forget the supporting cast either: the balls, perineum, and inner thighs are incredibly responsive. A little pressure or touch there can turn good oral into unforgettable oral.

Confidence and enthusiasm matter as much as technique. Enjoy it, show you’re having fun, and he’ll feel it instantly. Bonus marks for mixing up pace and adding a few surprises along the way.

Lesson 4: Extra Credit Accessories

Want to level up? Bring in lube (water-based is your oral BFF), flavoured gels, or body-safe toys to combine with mouth play. Think of them as your “lab equipment” for advanced studies.

 

Final Words

Oral sex has travelled a long road from ancient temples to modern bedrooms. It’s an art, a science, and above all, a celebration of connection and pleasure. Whether you’re revising the basics or chasing a PhD in passion, remember: safety first, confidence always, and practice makes perfect.