For many, Pride is rainbows, parades, glitter, and joy. And it is all those things, but it's also protest. It’s resistance. It’s a reminder that queerness has never been quiet, and it’s never been just about love.
It’s about bodies. Desire. Liberation.
At Kiss the Spot, we believe that sexual liberation is a vital part of queer liberation. Pleasure is political, especially when the world tries to police who you are and how you love.
Pleasure Has Always Been Radical
For LGBTQ+ people, exploring intimacy isn’t always safe, easy, or celebrated. For many, the path to pleasure is layered with shame, invisibility, or fear. That’s why reclaiming it is powerful.
To choose pleasure in a queer body is to say:
🖤 “My body is worthy.”
💛 “My desire is valid.”
🤍 “I don’t need permission.”
Whether you’re solo, partnered, fluid, questioning, or somewhere in between, your pleasure is yours to define, express, and enjoy.
Why Queer Pleasure Matters
Sex education has long left queer bodies out of the conversation. And when we’re taught to only see sex through a heteronormative, cis lens, it can be hard to know where to start or even believe you deserve it.
That’s why this matters. Because pleasure isn’t one-size-fits-all. It doesn’t follow a script. It’s diverse, defiant, and beautifully queer. And we’re here to celebrate it.
We’re Not Just a Shop - We’re a Safe Space to Explore
We created Kiss the Spot to be a place where people could feel seen. A place where gender doesn’t define your options. Where “beginner” doesn’t mean “shy,” and where sex is something to explore not perform.
That’s why we stock gender-inclusive toys, body-safe products, and no-pressure education. Because everyone deserves access to pleasure, whether you’re just starting out or deep into your kinky queer era.
Queer Pleasure Essentials & Gender-Free Picks We Love
We don’t believe toys should be labelled “for men” or “for women.” We believe in curiosity. Versatility. And options.
Here are a few of our fave Pride picks...
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The Wand Vibe: broad stimulation, all bodies welcome
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Suction Toy: external-focused, great for all kinds of anatomy
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Flexible Dildo or Strapless Option: gender-expansive, body-positive fun
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To mark Pride, we’re offering 10% off everything for the whole of June with code:
101PRIDE
Because joy is for everyone. And this month, we’re making it just a little easier to explore yours.
Pride Is Protest. Pride Is Play. Pride Is Pleasure.
This month (and always) we celebrate the joy of being unapologetically yourself.
We honour the stories, the struggle, and the sex.
So however you're showing up this Pride whether it be with glitter, with protest signs, or with a toy in your hand, just know:
You deserve this joy. You deserve this pleasure. You deserve this power.
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With love,
The Kiss the Spot team